The book “You’ve Been VALidated: A Playbook For Confidence And Connection” by on-air lifestyle expert and entertainment correspondent Valerie Greenberg was released on September 16. The book focuses on harnessing confidence and creating meaningful connections, featuring 15 celebrity contributors. We spoke to Valerie to learn more.
What was the spark that made you sit down and write “You’ve Been VALidated”?
Over the years, I would reflect and think about from a business perspective, where I excelled and what was unique to me as a television personality that had real value I could share with the world. After receiving feedback from friends and even people I had just met, relaying to me that how I conducted myself when interacting with them and in social settings made them feel more confident and ease their nerves, the longtime project commenced. It was clear that my ability to connect others was helpful, and I wanted to equip people with the tools to do so.
What does “validation” mean to you in the context of confidence and connection?
VALidation means that the only stamp of approval we need is our own! In a world of judgment and outside noise, this phrase grounds you and in a clever, quick-witted way, that outside praise isn’t necessary.
Did writing the book teach you something new about yourself or your own journey with confidence?
Absolutely! First off, I am in awe of all of the celebrity contributors in the book who were so open to sharing and lending their names in support of this project. It made me realize the level of authority and respect I have in my space as a lifestyle expert. My ability to embrace the learning curve that can sometimes be stressful when taking on a new project is also something I am quite proud of. Throughout this entire experience, I’ve shown myself what I am capable of, and now I have concrete evidence, aka the tangible book, that is affecting my readers so positively in a variety of facets of their lives.
Can you tell us about some of the celebrity contributors in your book?
My contributors are part of my “Confidence Community.” I want to encourage others around me to build their own inner circle of people who cheer them on, but also challenge them to be the best version of themselves. From James Lane Post cover star Isaac Boots to Hamptonite Cabaret Queen Countess Luann, I’ve met and developed relationships with celebs who carve their own path and motivated me to do so as well. Their wise words on a subject I am so passionate about give this book further depth, creativity, and serve as inspiration to make your dreams come true.
What advice do you have for someone who feels intimidated walking into a room full of strangers?
Positive self-talk is so essential. If you have an opportunity to do a little research as to who is in the room prior to entering, that can be an excellent strategy, so you can have a leg up when you walk in. Remind yourself that you are bringing VALU to the conversation, and anyone you interact with is lucky to talk to you as long as you are genuine and lead with your heart!
How do you hope readers will feel after finishing your book?
I want this book to be a retreat from racing thoughts and inspire my readers to believe in themselves and acknowledge that there is nothing to prove to others. By following these strategies, my readers can be their own best friend and see that anything is possible while simultaneously honing in on their superpowers and making new connections that they nurture with ease.
